Having accepted an invite to attend an Arsenal game and be part of their LGBTQ+ inclusion initiative, Arthur Webber – Twitter’s @BernieTranders – saw for himself how true support goes both ways between a club and its fans, as he told QueerAF in the Football v Transphobia campaign’s Week of Action…
This ‘Queer Gaze’ article was first published by new independent platform QueerAF as part of a scheme funding emerging and under-represented creatives, and featured in their weekly newsletter – subscribe here!
As a boy, I had a teddy bear named Thierry Henry. I’ve supported Arsenal since I was six, when I watched on in awe of their unbeaten run in the 2003-04 season.
I grew up living less than an hour from the Emirates Stadium. So why did it take until age 23 to go to my first game?
The answer is simple: I’m transgender, and I was unsure if I would be safe.
My trip to a game in January was very different from what I’d imagined. Arsenal invited trans and non-binary members of the ‘GayGooners’ – an LGBTQIA+ Arsenal supporters group – to attend a match against Brentford in an executive box.
The idea behind that was simple too: to encourage fans to return who had stayed away due to fear.
The atmosphere was unlike anything I had seen at a football match before – and I’m not talking about the three-course meal in the executive box!
I walked into a vibrant room almost overflowing with fellow transgender people, with an array of ages and gender identities. Several people knew who I was, thanks to my terminal case of being online. Hopefully, I didn’t disappoint.
Until then, I had never experienced the opportunity to tell a joke about my prosthetic penis falling off over a pint before kick-off.
I asked the others: how does it feel to go to a football match surrounded by other trans people? “Liberating.” “Magical.” “Privileged.” “Freedom.”
But I went knowing that as part of this experience, I’d been interviewed for Arsenal’s LGBT+ History Month campaign video. Alongside others from across the community, I spoke about my difficulties as a transgender supporter. My worries about being outed. About being treated differently to other fans.
Whilst filming, we toured the stadium for those classic candid shots you see in marketing. Someone mentioned that it would be nice to have posters up to encourage others to report discriminatory chanting.
And when I arrived for the Brentford match, I discovered posters everywhere. In the stadium, the match brochures, the pubs frequented by supporters. I knew then that I had a voice, and Arsenal had listened.
Our video aired at half-time. Due to how high up the box was, our view was obscured by the stadium’s infrastructure. I think my chin conveyed the message spectacularly, though.
After the match, we added each other on Facebook and set up a WhatsApp group to discuss games we are going to, and invite each other to meet up beforehand.
The club hasn’t just given us an incredible experience, they’ve given us a community where we didn’t think one existed.
Arsenal are still playing the video today, despite LGBT+ History Month being over. The posters remain up. The initiative to encourage fans to return who had stayed away due to fear continues.
It stands as the perfect model of how even top-flight clubs can show the action they are taking to tackle discrimination against our community in football.
Had six-year-old me known about this level of love and support from Arsenal, I would not have waited 17 years to attend a match. I hope others never have to.
A big thank you to Arthur and our friends at QueerAF for the opportunity to help this article reach a wider audience. Learn more about the QueerAF platform in our recent post. Email soareyou@wearequeeraf.com with enquiries.
The Football v Transphobia campaign’s annual Week of Action runs until Thursday, March 31 – get the lowdown here! You can also listen to Arthur in conversation with Natalie Washington and Paula Griffin on this episode of the FvT Podcast….
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